Are Men and Women Narcissists Really Different?
On the whole, they are very similar and certainly have similar goals—that is to exact resources and use their supply to further their social needs. The main difference between them is that men are more aggressive, seek powerful positions and expect to be rewarded generously at work. This is also referred to as the Leadership/Assertiveness facet of NPD.
While the female narcissist may crave this kind of power, she is not normally found to be seeking it. It strays from the traditional role of women in society. Simply put, women are considered bitches for seeking what narcissist men make their life journey—POWER.
Below I have summarized gender differences worth noting.